HELP • HOPE • HEALING
The H3Helpline is a ministry of New Heart of Texas Ministries. H3Helpline is dedicated to letting those who are hurting from their post-abortion pain know they are not alone. We understand the pain that is associated with post-abortion in women and men involved in this desperate decision. We provide the best recovery resources available today.
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H3Helpline is a national abortion helpline answering calls from across the country. We serve as a safe place for you to call if you are considering abortion or have suffered emotional pain after an abortion. Our professionally trained Phone Coaches have also experienced abortion. They are available to listen, empathize and encourage you to start your own journey of healing. Our Phone Coaches will research and recommend healing resources in your local area to begin your healing and restoration.
Together we can restore countless lives. Helping Heal the Pain of Abortion One phone call at a time.
Provide a safe, confidential, 24/7 Helpline for those who have experienced abortion, by offering encouragement and resources to start their healing journey.
Help those struggling with the choice of a past abortion find Help • Hope • Healing through H3Helpline.
H3Helpline Phone Coaches
H3Helpline serves as a safe place for you to call. Our professionally trained Phone Coaches have also experienced abortion. They are available to listen, empathize and encourage you to start your own journey of healing.
Terri is Director of H3Helpline and is living in Missouri. Terri is the former Director and Founder of Riverside Pregnancy Center in Denver, CO where she served for 10 years. Terri also has 9 years experience in managing and training an abortion recovery phone line. She has had the privilege of answering and talking to thousands of hurting people and assisting them to find hope and healing resources. She has taught and led numerous recovery groups, and helped with weekend recovery programs.
Terri has her own story of Help•Hope•Healing after abortion. She chose abortion when she was in college, right after abortion became legal. She thought, “How could abortion be so wrong if it is legal?” Her boyfriend at the time was encouraging abortion -“no one will have to know”. Also, she didn’t want to embarrass her family with being pregnant and not married. Terri was able to keep her decision a secret for years. It wasn’t until she saw her first ultra sound of her second child that she came to the realization of her choice – she had terminated life. Terri was able to suppress her emotions and hide her abortion for several more years. One day while sitting in church, the pastor opened up the service for testimonies, a young girl stood up and asked forgiveness for her abortion. That is when Terri’s journey of healing started. First she acknowledged her regrets and loss, and then she asked God’s forgiveness and help in healing and restoration. God gave Terri a passion to tell her story so other women could break free from the bondage of their hurt and pain, and be renewed and restored to live in freedom. She wants you to find your Help•Hope•Healing after Abortion.
Mary Lee is the Founder and President of New Heart of Texas ministries. These ministries include Rachel’s Vineyard Retreats for those hurting from abortion, and Grief to Grace Retreats for those who have suffered from abuse and the H3Helpine. Mary Lee served as a phone consultant for an abortion recovery helpline for 7 years where she has spoken to thousands of women and men hurting from the pain of abortion and abuse. She has been the director of two pregnancy centers and has trained hundreds of volunteers who serve clients with unplanned pregnancies. Mary Lee has such a passion for this ministry as she herself has experienced the pain of abortion and desires others to experience the healing she has received.
When she was 18 years old and in college she became pregnant and made the decision to a have an abortion which she immediately regretted. She kept it a secret for over 20 years. Each year she went through a deep depression for 6-8 weeks around her abortion anniversary. She attended a Rachel’s Vineyard Abortion Recovery Retreat in 2006 and there, for the first time, she was able to forgive herself for aborting her unborn child. Since then she has dedicated her life to help women and men find healing and forgiveness from the emotional trauma they have suffered because of their abortions and/or abuse.
healing started. First she acknowledged her regrets and loss, and then she asked God’s forgiveness and help in healing and restoration. God gave Terri a passion to tell her story so other women could break free from the bondage of their hurt and pain, and be renewed and restored to live in freedom. She wants you to find your Help•Hope•Healing after Abortion.
Vice Pres. Texas
Cami is on the board of New Heart of TX and has led several Rachel’s Vineyard Retreats. Cami also volunteers during the Grief to Grace retreats for those who have been affected by abuse. Cami is an experienced Phone Coach where she answered phones for over 4 years. Cami has a heart for helping others heal from their past.
Cami was born to a couple who dearly loved God and served as international missionaries. She accepted Christ into her heart at the age of six. Even though she grew up in the church, her perception of God was not of a loving Father but more of a judge. When she found herself pregnant in March of 1982, she was scared, ashamed and alone. She had only known the father of the baby for two months and she felt sure he would abandon her. The only option she thought she had was abortion. She couldn’t face the shame she knew this would cause for her family, so in April she drove herself to the Planned Parenthood Clinic. What happened that day became her secret- a secret she planned to take to the grave. She felt relieved and blocked the whole event from her mind-so she thought.
Twenty-five years later she filled out an application to volunteer at the Pregnancy Help Center. The lie continued when she answered “no” to the question: “Have you ever had an abortion”. During the volunteer training, she heard testimonies from two women who had an abortion. This was the first time she had ever heard anyone talk candidly about their abortion experience. These women had received God’s forgiveness and had forgiven themselves. The joy and peace on their faces was unmistakable and she wanted that same joy and peace.
In April 2008, Cami completed a post abortion bible study and then attended Rachel’s Vineyard in 2010. She did not know how much her abortion had affected her life. For 26 years she suffered with depression, feelings of unworthiness, anger, difficulty with relationships and fear that God would punish me.
The God she now knows is the God of love, mercy and grace. His forgiveness and healing in her life has ignited a passion in her to help anyone that has struggled with the effects of abortion. Cami served at the Pregnancy Help Center, has facilitated several Forgiven and Set Free Bible studies and continues to serve on Rachel’s Vineyard Retreats as a team member.
Adoption Consultant Colorado
Pamela Fincher has been married to Dr. Randolph E. Fincher, an Optometrist, for the past 50 years. She and her husband also have four (4) beautiful children.
Pamela currently serves as the Foundress and Executive Director of Christian Family Services of Colorado, Inc. Christian Family Services is a ministry of adoption that is located in Aurora, Colorado. Pam has served at Christian Family Services for over 35 years as a Birth Parent and Adoptive Couple Counselor. She has also trained other individuals in working with pregnant clients and adoptive couples. During her involvement at CFS, Pam has had the honor of answering telephone calls and speaking to hundreds of men and women regarding abortion and adoption. Additionally, Pam has counseled with many women and men in unplanned pregnancy situations to better assist them in understanding the truth about abortion vs adoption. Furthermore, Pam has had the privilege of seeing many beautiful and wonderful babies being born and given life through adoption.
Pam’s personal experience with abortion came when she was still attending college and found herself in an unplanned pregnancy situation. The State of Colorado had just legalized abortion and she found herself thinking that abortion was the answer to her pregnancy problem. The biological father of her baby did not want her to abort their baby, but Pam made the final decision and did abort her child.
No one at the abortion clinic where Pam went told her the truth about her abortion. They did not tell her that she would experience great amounts of grief and guilt over her abortion. Nor did they tell her how she would deeply regret her decision for many years to come. The abortion workers never expressed that Pam’s decision to abort her baby would affect her emotionally, mentally, physically and even spiritually. In fact at that time, she felt God could not EVER forgive her for the sin of abortion. At that time, Pam couldn’t EVER see forgiving herself. So, how could God forgive her for aborting her baby? Pam truly needed so much help with this question and then, He sent someone into her life that knew about the way to get healing from the cruel and abusive act of abortion.
After several years had gone by, Pam had a meeting with a fellow worker at Christian Family Services. She talked to Pam about abortion healing and Pam decided to go through an Abortion Recovery Class. Through this recovery class Pam personally asked the Lord Jesus to forgive her for aborting her baby and she chose to forgive herself. Pam named her baby and decided what she thought the sex of her child might be. She did not understand then that all of this work towards the healing and recovery of the abortion of her baby was just the beginning of her journey towards working with other pregnant women that were considering abortion instead of giving their child(ren) life.
“I praise Jesus for His beautiful forgiveness towards me and my abortion. I praise Him for His unconditional love for me. I also praise the Lord God Almighty that He sent a beautiful woman to me that taught me how to share the truth about abortion. Finally, I praise Jesus Christ my Savior that He will be able to use me at the H3Helpline in any way that He desires!”
Prayer Cooridnator Texas
Cindy comes to us with a heart for those who have experienced abortion. She has been freed from the bondage of self-hatred, fear, anger, manipulation, depression, rejection, and the list goes on and on. Because of her freedom she has a passion to help others. Cindy has 13 years of experience leading Forgiven and Set Free, helping with Rachel’s Vineyard Retreats and answering the International Helpline for the over 2 years.
As a child Cindy grew up in a loving and healthy environment. She was brought up Catholic, so she knew right from wrong. As an adolescent the loving and healthy environment took an ugly turn when her parents divorced which reigned in great turmoil and confusion. Her mother then got involved in an abusive relationship and was buried shortly thereafter. Cindy turned to drugs to numb the pain. She was naïve in many ways, she did not know how to have healthy relationships and found herself pregnant. She was ashamed and alone and did not know where to turn. She thought how could she bring this shame upon her family? A friend told her about abortion. It was her escape, her refuge from the storm, and no one would ever know. So off she went, a friend dropped her off and there she sat. Looking down at that cold laminate tile floor in the cold metal fold up chair along with the others in the same predicament she was in. It was a long wait and a painful procedure. The pain and the sound, she will never forget that sound. It was over, she was so thankful it was over. Then she had to make that awful, dreaded decision a second time. The second time was worse than the first; Cindy said she should have known better. It was over in an instant, but the pain; the pain remained. The drugs became more prevalent and alcohol was added to numb the pain. Cindy didn’t realize where it was coming from since she was freed from anyone knowing that she had ever been pregnant in the first place. Cindy was in deep denial of what she had done. Cindy then met her wonderful husband and they had a beautiful daughter, it was while Cindy was pregnant the harsh reality of what she had done came slapping her in the face. Her thoughts came rushing in –“What if God chooses to punish me for what I did? Will my baby be ok? Oh sure you are having a baby now, it’s not just a blob, it’s a baby” More and more it flooded her mind, then when that glorious day arrived and her daughter entered her world, Cindy was unable to bond with her, not wanting to hold her precious gift from God. She was perfect in every way, He did not punish Cindy. He had no need to punish her; she was punishing herself in ways that she didn’t even know. Every relationship Cindy had suffered from the rage she felt toward herself. Even through all of that God was pursuing her, longing for her to surrender to His is love and care. Cindy’s little family finally all fell into His loving arms of mercy and grace after years of relentless pursuit. Their lives began to have real meaning, relationships were beginning to heal and life was manageable. But there was still that dirty secret that was tucked away, that no one except her friend and God and eventually her husband knew about. It stalked her like an extortionist waiting to release it to the world, to her newfound friends, her church! Oh her church, Cindy’s thoughts went wild again, “what if they found out who she really was? They would never allow her to be involved in anything anymore I must do all that I can to keep them from knowing.” It was then that she came clean with her small group she could no longer hide who she was. Cindy knew that she wanted to help others at that point to never have to feel like she was feeling. Her small group of course, was loving and compassionate and supportive. Not long after that Cindy’s daughter and her husband were expecting a child. Cindy escorted them to a local Pregnancy Help Center and discovered an Abortion Recovery Program. It came at the nick of time for Cindy to be able to enjoy her first grand-girl. She had never understood why she had no desire to hold babies, but God used this program to heal her broken heart and, she is now able to enjoy holding babies.
Cindy says, “She is certain had abortion not been legal, I would never have considered it. But it was legal and easily attainable, so that is the road that I traveled. It is the wide road and many are deceived by it. Abortion is by far the most life altering decision I have ever made and I have always regretted it. If you have found yourself struggling with the misguided decision of abortion, I encourage you to give the power of an Abortion Recovery Program an opportunity to help you heal from the pain, shame and suffering of your loss.”
Phone Coach Texas
Christine is dedicated to helping women heal from their pain of abortion. Christine has worked with an Abortion Recovery Helpline for the last 2 years. She has attended Rachel’s Vineyard and Grief to Grace and understands the journey of healing. Christine also volunteers with New Heart of Texas.
This is Christine’s story in her own words:
“I was 15 years old when I got pregnant by my boyfriend. For a while, I thought we would get married and be a family and I secretly prayed for that, but didn’t really even know who God was. I did not know it at the time but he was an alcoholic. When his mother found out, she pressured me to get an abortion saying. ‘I was too young to be a mom’. He continued to drink and cheated on me. How could the person who was supposed to love me, hurt me so badly? My heart was reeling with lies whispered by the deceiver, so I made an appointment with an abortion clinic thinking it would “take care of my problem”. I went home and told my mom that I was getting an abortion. My mother told me not to do it. Through my tears, I told my mom that I felt I had no choice but to do it. She told me to not come back home if I did, so I left. My boyfriend who was supposed to ‘be there for me’ went out and got drunk again, so a friend took me. It all seemed like a bad dream, but unfortunately, it was all too real. At the clinic, it so was cold and austere—I started crying again. I really did not want to do it. I just wanted someone to tell me I would be okay and the baby would be okay. That I could handle this…my mom had done that, but again the lies were swirling around in my head. The nurse told me to put a gown on and to lay on the exam table. The two things I will never forget about the abortion:
- The extremely sharp pains I felt as my baby was dismembered and his life taken from me —I cried and told them to stop but they wouldn’t.
- The horrible sucking noise of the vacuum machine.
Eventually, I stumbled out to the waiting room. The staff quickly grabbed me and told me sternly to go to the back of the clinic to get picked up! I was dazed and in pain and left with an antibiotic in my hand and my heart broken. I was completely drained —emotionally and physically and later on I realized, spiritually, too. I drank alcohol and did drugs to numb myself out. I tried to tell myself that it was okay, but I knew deep down, it was not okay—I was not okay. Physically, I worried if I would ever be able to have children? Emotionally, I felt such guilt and regret. Spiritually, I felt so ashamed that I thought God would never forgive me.
My journey to healing began about 20 years ago. I had met a young man and we fell in love. I prayed to God that this man would become my husband. God answered that prayer! My future husband and I started going to church, where he accepted Jesus as Lord and Savior, got baptized and then we got married in the church! As our faith journey has progressed, I have received healing and hope through Bible study, prayer and attending an abortion recovery retreat. I was able to honor the memory of my son and receive true forgiveness and healing from the Lord! My favorite verse is Philippians 4:13, “I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.”
Phone Coach Arkansas
It has taken Katrina 16 years to openly tell her abortion story and her prayer is that it helps someone else & gives them hope.
Katrina was 16 and pregnant. She was able to keep her pregnancy hidden until one day her mother took her to the doctor for birth control, and they came back in the room and said, “She’s pregnant”….. Katrina says she was actually relieved because she had been too afraid to tell her mother herself. A couple of weeks later on February 28, 2003 after carrying her baby for 19 1/2 weeks she terminated her pregnancy; not because she wanted to, but because her mother felt like it was the best choice. Afterwards, she remembers feeling like she had done the unforgivable. Katrina felt alone, unloved, misguided, misunderstood, ashamed, lost, hurt, confused, empty, angry, guilty and scared. Scared that she would never have kids, and at that moment she started crying and praying for the Lord to not only forgive her, but to bless her with children.
Phone Coach Missouri
Stephanie is a mother of 5 children, a mother-in-love to 4, and a grandmother to 14. She is a licensed massage therapist. God is expanding her passions and desires to include many other areas, including legislation through being a citizen activist. She comes to H3Helpline with a great passion to encourage women to start their healing journey from the pain of abortion.
It has been said …‘No little girl ever dreams about becoming a prostitute’.
Let it be known…‘No little girl ever dreams about having an abortion’.
She was raised in a loving, two parent Christian home. Her world was safe. Her childhood desire was to be married, have children and grow old gracefully with her husband. But life had a detour she never saw coming. She and her high school sweetheart made a decision to end the life of their first child. During college they parted ways. Stephanie became unglued and promiscuous. Another pregnancy and another abortion. Soon after the second secret abortion, she and her high school sweet heart got married. God blessed them with 5 beautiful children. Things were as they should be. Or were they? An ache deep inside of her continued. Going from doctor to counselor to psychologists, one day a pastor friend helped her turn her eyes back to Jesus, giving rest and hope. But she was still VERY broken.
Her story isn’t different from millions of women in various stages of their confusion. One moment Stephanie convinced herself it is OK to have an abortion… but felt like a lifetime to convince herself she was going to BE ok… All the while knowing deep inside she was NOT ok. Not without getting help from somewhere. But where??
Her breakthrough came when she was able to grieve the loss of her babies privately and publicly through a ministry called If Not For Grace. Her children she lost to abortion became real. Her healing journey began.
Stephanie now has the boldness to be obedient and speak out for truth. The pain that had inhibited her from her God given purpose, gave way to understanding God’s plan is for her for ‘such a time as this’. She gives all glory to our God our Father for HIS mercy and grace. Esther 4:14 #prograce
Phone Coach Florida
Loni has a heart for helping women and men find help after abortion. She has been trained as a facilitator for “Forgiven and Set Free” and Pathway to Sexual Healing” both by Linda Cochrane. Loni has also facilitated other Christ centered post abortion recovery studies which included, “Surrendering the Secret and “Concepts of Recovery -The Journey”. In 2013, Loni retired and began ministry work full-time which included serving in a men’s prison where she began facilitating, “A Purpose Driven Life” by Rick Warren. Loni has completed the 12 Steps in Celebrate Recovery and served as a facilitator at Calvary Chapel. In 2017, she co-authored a post abortion curriculum titled “Brick by Brick Workbook” based on the book, “Brick by Brick Healing a Woman’s Heart His Way” by Keven Covert. Loni is no stranger to help lines as she has answered calls for 3 years on an abortion recovery helpline.
“I never really recovered from my parent’s divorce at the age of 2 and the abuse sustained from a cruel step-mother – now all deceased – so it wasn’t a surprise when I became pregnant at the age of 14. My 19 year old boyfriend assured me that he knew a woman who would take care of the problem. I was hoping my boyfriend would offer to marry me but that was never mentioned. He took me to a woman who injected Lysol cleaning solution into me. She charged me $25.00. I ended up in the hospital two days later. The doctors were aware of the illegal abortion but simply gave me a D&C and sent me home. One year later I became pregnant by the same boy and the scenario was repeated. Although the first abortion had been hidden from my father, this time he suspected that something was wrong and sent me to live with a relative in California. I ended up in the hospital where once again a D&C was performed. I had been treated in two hospitals in two different states and seen by many medical personnel and no one suggested my need for counseling.”
Loni was treated for depression, fits of rage, nightmares and intimacy disorders for over ten years and not one medical professional told her that it was connected to her three abortions. It was in 2005, after three failed marriages and at the age of fifty that she began her abortion healing journey. By 53, she had been married three times and her fourth divorce was in her future. It wasn’t until Loni completed a Bible study called Divorce Care did she begin to suspect that these events in her life were connected to something much deeper…somewhere she had never visited. She did not know anything about Post Abortion Syndrome. The guilt and shame burdened her so much that Loni found it impossible to maintain an intimate relationship. After that first study, the Lord led her to another study “Forgiven and Set Free” by Linda Cochrane which helped heal the pain of abortion.
Phone Coach Missouri
Linda lives in Missouri with her husband of 42 years. They have two children and five grandchildren. Linda has worked for If Not For Grace Ministries (INFG), an abortion recovery ministry for five years as the Community Awareness Coordinator. Along with Community Awareness she has facilitated Her Choice to Heal abortion recovery classes, helped facilitate reconciliation weekends and led Bible studies through their Next Steps services. Linda spreads her passion for abortion recovery to the community through pastor presentations, speaking engagements, conferences/events and networking. She has been trained in trauma healing through the American Bible Society Trauma Healing Conference. She is honored to serve on the Advisory Board for Wise Women: Education, Community, Empowerment in Lee’s Summit.
Linda’s zeal for women’s restoration comes from her own abortion story and the restoration God has done in her life. Without God’s forgiveness and redemption her marriage would never have made it this far. Linda and her husband experienced an abortion together before they were married. The Bible says ‘the enemy comes to steal, and to kill and to destroy’ and that is exactly what he was doing to their marriage. He had taken their baby and he worked for 37 years to take their marriage. John 10:10 continues with “I have come that they may have life, and they may have it more abundantly.” Through God’s word, an abortion recovery class and reconciliation weekend Linda and her husband have been living life more abundantly by helping others find healing from past abortions.
Phone Coach Missouri
Susan is a wife, mother, and grandmother who lives on a farm in rural Missouri. She is an active member in her local church where she teaches Sunday School and leads an active Benevolence Ministry. Through God’s leading she joined the board of Ray of Hope, a local pregnancy ministry, and spearheaded the development of a post-abortive recovery program there. During the process of starting this program, Susan was able to find her own healing from a past abortion.
Susan was raised on a farm in Northeast Missouri where she attended a small country church with her family. At the age of 9, she lost her father in a tractor accident and became the daughter of a single mother. She worked hard and was a good student throughout high school, but during college she strayed from her faith. She soon found herself in an abusive relationship and pregnant. Through the help of her family she was able to leave this relationship, and she and her daughter returned to Northeast Missouri, where they found a new start. However, Susan soon found herself in another toxic relationship. She became pregnant again, but this time decided not to keep the child. It was then that she had an abortion that would pull her even farther from the Lord. The following seven years were filled with guilt and pain – a pain that Susan buried deep inside so no one would see it.
Finally, in 2003, Susan began reading “The Purpose Driven Life” by Rick Warren. This was a new beginning for her. She reconnected with the Lord, and soon after, met and married a wonderful husband who started her on the road to healing. It was through the faith and words of her husband that she began realizing she could be forgiven for her past. Eventually, Susan started to hear the Lord’s call to help others through their journey of healing. Susan knows that she could have never found healing on her own. It was only through the help of the Lord, her husband, and the post-abortive recovery that she has been able to truly find peace.
Phone Coach Missouri
Nancy is from Central MO and has been married for 42 years, has 3 grown sons and 5 grandchildren. She is a retired school teacher. She started the organization Women Helping Others (W.H.O.) in 2013. The goal of WHO is to bring HOPE to women who are hurting. Nancy also serves as the Central Missouri Regional Coordinator for the Silent No More Awareness Campaign and is a leader for Surrendering the Secret healing courses.
Nancy married her husband 2 weeks shy of her 16th birthday. On her 17th birthday she gave birth to her oldest son. Six months later she found herself pregnant again and overwhelmed. Her husband offered to call his doctor and arrange for an abortion. Nancy had a dream the night before of a little girl running through a field of flowers. The little girl stopped right in front of Nancy and said, “Mommy don’t kill me.” The next morning Nancy told her husband she did not want to have the abortion. He felt it was what was best for Nancy so they continued to the Planned Parenthood.
The doctor who performed the abortion told Nancy that he was going to use a suction hose like those used in a dentist office. That experience caused her to have panic attacks when she visited a dentist office. It got so bad that she stopped having preventive care.
Nancy stuffed that day down so deep in her subconscious that she is unable to recall details of the procedure. She kept the secret of her abortion for 16 years. She shared it with two people who only offered her condemnation. She learned then that abortion was not a subject people talked about. Nancy lied to her physicians each time they asked how many times have you been pregnant. She changed doctors when she was asked why she had scarring on her cervix.
Years passed and Nancy went to a local pregnancy resource center to volunteer. She was asked to take a Surrendering the Secret class because she had had an abortion. She took the class and her healing journey began. Nancy also attended Rachel’s Vineyard where she started to release the anger and unforgiveness that was in her emotional roller coaster of a marriage. Next she heard of the Silent No More Awareness Campaign and started to give her testimony. This opened the door for her to go public with her abortion story. She is no longer silent about her abortion and she has a passion to help other women find healing from their past abortions.
Phone Coach Illinois
Megan lives in central Illinois with her husband & 3 daughters. She is very active in her local church where she is on staff as Women’s Ministry Director. She has volunteered at the local pregnancy center for the past 11 years. She is very passionate about coming along side of broken people & showing them how to claim freedom through Christ!
At the age of 25, Megan was what she regularly refers to as a “hot mess”. She was divorced, raising her 2-year-old daughter, struggling financially, living at home with her parents, & trying to sort out the broken pieces of her life. She became more & more reckless, filling her emptiness with men, booze, & parties. Always believing she was the exception to the rule; she never saw the consequences coming for her. Megan found herself pregnant & terrified. She couldn’t bear the thought of her family knowing the lifestyle she was living & the choices she had made. In her mind, there was only one option that would keep everyone from knowing the truth. Within a week of confirming her pregnancy, she chose to have an abortion. Everything seemed to happen so fast & without being informed or even given a proper thought. She just wanted it to be over so she could go back to “normal”.
And at first life did seem normal. But over time, she began to act differently, always angry, always bitter, always harsh. She struggled to parent her daughter. She struggled to maintain friendships & relationships with her family. She began a pattern of self-destruction; hating herself, making poor choices, hating herself more, making more poor choices, etc… Approximately 10 months after her abortion she hit her emotional rock bottom only to realize that what she needed, what was missing, the only thing that could save her from herself, was Jesus.
Megan & her daughter began attending church where she fell in love with Jesus, and then met her amazing husband. After deciding to volunteer at the pregnancy center, she was surrounded by love and support as a group of ladies lead her through an abortion recovery Bible study. This was only the beginning of her healing journey. After finishing the study, she became one of the facilitators. For the past 11 years she walked with women (and even a few men) hurting from abortion. She considers it an honor to watch as their Creator heals their hearts one by one. Megan loves sharing her story of redemption whether over a cup of coffee, from a stage in a banquet hall, or online through YouTube, podcasts, social media, writing, etc… Megan desperately wants others to know that they aren’t alone and there is hope!
Phone Coach Missouri
Sharon is a retired registered nurse who worked 30+ years primarily in adult emergency health at Kansas City’s safety net hospital which was at the time the primary teaching hospital for the University of Missouri Medical School at Kansas City. Most of those years she was manager (with a number of titles) of the Emergency Department and also had supervisory responsibility at various times for outpatient clinics, critical care units, specialty inpatient units and the dialysis service. Most recently she has volunteered with INFG as facilitator for HCTH studies, Reconciliation Weekends, Next Steps Bible studies and served on the Board of Directors. She has completed Stephen Minister training and will be commissioned as a Stephen Minister in June, 2018.
Widowed at an early age and without any living children, Sharon has been involved in various volunteer activities that have utilized her nursing background, management experience, and the spiritual gifts God has given. She is an active church member serving in: women’s ministry; choir; Bible studies; mentoring; Haiti Home of Hope Board of Directors (orphanage the church operates in Pigon, Haiti; Missions Committee; Scholarship Committee.
Sharon’s personal abortion story includes two abortions as an unmarried young adult; coming to a relationship with Jesus as a result of her abortions; years of locking away the pain and shame; keeping others at a distance for fear of being “found out”; building a successful career and solid marriage; and finally- about 40 years after the second abortion- being broken by the need to grieve and heal, seeking help through If Not for Grace Ministries (INFG). God had graciously brought her to the realization that bringing the truth to light was what was needed to be fully free to serve Him in any way He desired.
In 2013, she completed the Her Choice to Heal (HCTH)study and attended a Reconciliation Weekend which included a much needed opportunity to fully reconcile with God, acknowledge and honor and grieve publicly for her two children.
Phone Coach Texas
Rosa lives in Texas with her husband and two young children. She has worked at a local pregnancy center since 2015 and has been a volunteer there since 2006, specifically helping women who have gone through an abortion. She has also served as a team member for Rachel’s Vineyard retreats since 2010.
While in college, Rosa became pregnant. Fear and desperation lead her to choose abortion; she honestly felt she had no other option. Even before the procedure began, she regretted her decision and fell into a great sadness. Having feelings of loneliness, shame, and regret, she buried her emotions of the abortion, and vowed to carry this secret to her grave. The emotions resurfaced eight years later while dealing with struggles in her first marriage. She saw a counselor and for the first time spoke about her abortion. The counselor introduced Rosa to a post abortion Bible study for women at the local pregnancy help center. This Bible study helped acknowledge her pain and loss, but more importantly, guided her into having a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. She was able to forgive herself and accept God’s forgiveness and love. Rosa’s passion is to share God’s love, grace and freedom with women who have suffered emotional and spiritual pain after an abortion.
Phone Coach Texas
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